So far, so good! These women may view men who are virgins or abstinent as men who are sexually responsible, disciplined, and have established standards that are set apart from societies sexual standards for men. No, not just with you: The idea of "virginity" is treated in a variety of different ways in society and through the mainstream media, from an embarrassment to be gotten rid of at all costs to the ultimate state of purity and innocence. It's a pretty creepy way of looking at things, and it would be a good idea for you to reassure her that that's not your mindset. The women may view them as men who are afraid of physical intimacy, impotent, homosexual, or men who have something to hide.
If it's no big deal for her, you'll still need to be gentle and considerate, but there may be less emotional prep work involved.
Guys' Take On: Girls Who Are Still Virgins
When it comes to dating you, guys care more about you as a person than your sexual past, no matter how much action or lack of action it involved. Let's say you've been dating someone a while and you're discussing the prospect of having sex for the first time together. It's important to remember, too, that the sex itself may not be amazing: It's also worth factoring in the idea that it's the ultimate goal for men to "take" a woman's virginity. How do you make her feel as comfortable as possible, and make sure her first experience goes well?